The miracle is not to fly in the air, or to walk on the water, but to walk on the earth.

~Chinese Proverb~

Three Ways To Ditch Your Dark Depressive Thoughts

When you are caught in a depressive funk, it is important to get away from your thoughts.

Although these thoughts can seem inescapable, they’re not. We can escape them because our awareness is something we can control.

It takes effort to move our awareness where we want it, but with practice it gets easier.

Thoughts are concepts or things that come and go. We entertain them, experience them, see them, know them, and sometimes link them together into larger ideas or stories. Although it can seem we are our thoughts, we are not.

Struggling or wrestling with depressive thoughts only seems to strengthen them and entangle us in their embrace. Instead of wrestling, it is better to give up the fight and leave the ring. The question is often, how does a person do that? It can seem as if there is no way out.

Three Ways to Escape Your Dark Thoughts

1. Helium Balloon Visualization

Take a deep breath, either literally or in your imagination, and blow all your monkey-mind thoughts into a balloon with your magical helium breath. Make the balloon a specific color, maybe purple, orange, or red. Imagine your mind emptying and the thoughts flowing into the balloon.

Tie the balloon closed, take it outside and let it go. Watch it slowly drift up and away, carrying your stormy thoughts with it.

Fill and send off several balloons throughout the day if necessary to give yourself a rest from your thoughts. Enjoy the peace of being free from them, even if the peace is fleeting at first.

2. Heart Awareness

Awareness is not the same as our thinking mind. With our awareness we observe what goes on in our environment, and in our mind. By allowing your awareness to settle into your heart area, the tumultuous thoughts in the mind are left behind.

For those new to working with awareness, this means observing life from your heart. It does not mean somehow getting inside your heart and looking out. It is simply a matter of letting your attention, your ability to observe, rest at heart level.

The heart is an open, peaceful place to observe from. Although scientists know that the heart is a mind of its own, having its own neural network, it does not entertain thoughts. It seems to be more of a wise and knowing dimension of humanity where you can hang your awareness and chill-out.

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